Some hearts are warmth in someone else’s winter❄️

Flowers don’t compete, they bloom🌼

In a garden full of flowers, rose doesn’t rush to shine the way a sunflower blooms, they both bloom beautifully in their own way. Treat yourself with the gentleness you deserve you’re not here to compete with anyone, but to discover your own way to bloom.

A sunflower shares its seeds to feed the birds and its oil to nourish others, yet it never loses its golden glow. The birds find joy in its gift, reminding us that sometimes, giving from the heart is enough.🌻

A rose is a flower with soft and comforting petals but also with thrones that comes with some boundaries. Sometimes having boundaries is important too!🥀

Life is a garden of roses, each shade is a chapter of our hearts. The red carries the fire of love that warms us through cold nights. The pink holds the quiet gratitude and soft kindness that shape our gentlest days. The white offers peace, like a page turned clean for a new beginning. The yellow glows with the laughter of friendships that make the weight of living feel lighter. And the black, teaches us the beauty of endings because without them, there would be no room for another bloom. In the end, we are all roses, carrying every shade within us love and loss, beginnings and farewells, blooming in colors that change with the seasons of our souls.

Lotus blooming in a muddy place is like rising the strongest from the rock bottom. In our culture lotus is associated with divine beauty and spirituality. In ancient times, it represented creation and rebirth, a reminder that beginnings can emerge from even the most unlikely places. It is said that Radha Rani, the symbol of love and devotion, was born on a lotus. Just like a lotus blooms pure and bright from muddy waters, Radha came into this world untouched by its noise, carrying only kindness, grace, and divine love. Her birth on a lotus is more than just a story, it’s a soft reminder that no matter where you come from, you can still bloom in the purest light.🪷

Tulips break through the frost after a long winter, just as we find our strength after seasons of silence. They bring color to the cold earth, reminding us Some people are warmth in someone else’s winter.🌷

One chapter from my book called “Life” was about innocence and attachment:

I’ve always been the kind of person who treasures every relationship whether it’s a friendship or something deeper. Just as Radha’s love for Krishna was beyond the boundaries of desire, I too once found myself deeply caring for someone. I valued that bond so much that I poured my time, energy, and heart into making him smile. And every time I saw that smile, it felt like a quiet blessing in my own life.

I realized it was love when his happiness became my only prayer whether or not it included me. As the saying goes, “He called me his Radha, so I was happy to see him with his Rukmini in his Dwarika.” Sometimes it felt like our feelings met halfway, other times, it felt like I was the only one walking the road. And that’s okay, because real love isn’t about getting the same in return, it’s about giving without keeping score. It was his choice not to choose me, and that doesn’t make him a bad person. When you truly love someone, they cannot turn into a villain in your story just because they didn’t feel the same way. If someone becomes a “bad person” in your eyes simply because they couldn’t reciprocate, then perhaps it wasn’t love it was an expectation. It’s okay if you ended up being his Meera, Lord Krishna will always come to rescue you whenever you feel lost.

I was deeply attached to him, and I knew it would take a long time to heal. Sometimes it felt like I got attached when I didn’t even knew the meaning of attachment. Now I see that maybe God gives us certain lessons early so that our souls are strong enough to face the storms later. And that is what made this chapter beautiful it was a lesson, not a loss.

“Yada yada hi dharmasya glanir bhavati bharata, abhyutthanam adharmasya tadatmanam srjamy aham.”

Meaning - Whenever there is a decline in righteousness and an increase in unrighteousness, O Arjuna, at that time I manifest Myself. (Bhagavad Gita 4.7)

Here Lord Krishna says, you being the Arjuna, should know if it’s right for you or not, if it’s not right for you, choose yourself. 

This shlok reminds me that sometimes God appears in our lives not in the form of miracles, but in the form of people who change us forever. Some stay, some leave but each one shapes the dharma of our own heart.

And if I could leave you with one message from this chapter, it would be this:

Love is like a garden, some blossoms stay for a season, some for a lifetime, but each one leaves us a little more human, a little more whole. When we give love freely, without expecting it in return, we become part of something never ending, a bloom in the garden of God’s own making. Love is never wasted. Even if it doesn’t come back to you, it returns to the world in ways beyond imagination, because every heart that loves without condition becomes a temple where God quietly resides.❤️

Here’s something for you:

https://youtu.be/oj2XJJDTVnM?si=eEnuYHO_5ajuAvwM

Thank you for being part of this garden. Take care and keep blooming.🌸